At least we all have some secret words. If someone else knows the words, we will get into trouble or get hurt in social or because someone will take advantage of my weakness, they are secret. It is not necessary to conceal anything that means betraying or something bad. Many times we want to keep secret our personal information or the things, because of various social or family problems.
There is nothing wrong with it, you may want to keep your personal information confidential. But when there is a hindrance, there is no one else to know these hidden concepts. Someone who wants to turn anonymity into an alias. Some people are in the world, whose activities are only about personal matters of other people. On the other hand, sometimes we may even tell a secret to somebody in times of weakness. And the fact of being deceived by the closest man is normal. It is often seen that the closest people to us are breaking the faith.
Whatever the reason, it has been revealed somehow – how to deal with this issue? Let’s talk today about the feature, but in most of the people has been facing the problem.
Try to keep calm your mind
When such an incident happens, when leaking a secret, anyone who becomes shocked and agitated. Many questions arise in the head, such as- how to know or what will happen now! Many people can not understand what to do at that moment. Some people become scared, others get angry. Although neither one of them is correct. It is undoubtedly a danger to leak own weakness in another. But getting scared or excited, the solution will not match. Rather sit down and think how to they can harm you. Find out how to protect yourself and try to resist it.
Do not break the relation
If anyone of us knows our secret things, the mistake of breaking the relationship with him cannot be right. If you stay away from him then it will be more harmful instead of benefits. Due to the fact that he has good relation with you, he will think twice to spread the words around. On the other hand, if the relationship becomes worse, he will try to harm you as much as possible.
Do not try to say lie for hiding the leak
One of your secret truths have been published, do not try to convince him to say many lies to hide it. It is in contrast to most of the cases. The whole situation becomes dull and you lose credibility in front of everyone. Deal with honesty, whatever the secret is good or bad. Because the blame/crime has happened in the past, not at present. It is worthless to be dishonest even today for a bad work of the past.
Do not go to the request
Someone may have heard of you a secret, maybe he will tell to other people. You requested him not to tell anyone. Think it will work? Not at all. Rather, who like gossip, he will be able to gossip with greater enthusiasm. And the silent or introvert people will not spread it.
Take the matter as normal
Do not reveal anything in your behavior that you feel embarrassed or ashamed of being secret leaked. Rather behave as normal as it does not matter. If you want to avoid rumor, there is no alternative to normal behavior.
Confess the mistake, apologize
If any hidden matter has been published, then instead of trying to hide it, accept it and apologize with sincerity. It is not possible to hide anything that has been released once. It is better to ask forgiveness without trying to hide. This will save your respect.
Ultimately, the little life can be spent more transparently as much comfort as possible. If we clear to our conscience, then it will be easier for leading a good life.
References: Psychology Today, talk about the mind. Share the article on your social profiles.